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Can a Domestic Violence Victim Drop the Charges?

Law Offices of James Crosby Aug. 23, 2025

Domestic violence cases are emotionally charged, legally complicated, and deeply personal. Often, once the dust settles, the person who initially called the police or reported the abuse may decide they no longer want to pursue the case. This raises a critical and often misunderstood question: Can a domestic violence victim drop the charges?

While it's possible and does happen, dropping DV charges isn't the easiest action to carry out, nor is it super common. Ultimately, every case is extremely unique. At The Law Offices of James Crosby, we've seen it all. Our criminal defense lawyer in Murrysville, Pennsylvania, helps clients facing domestic violence charges understand how the process works.

Here, we’ll explore how domestic violence cases are prosecuted, the role of the victim, and what options may be available for those seeking to withdraw or dismiss charges.

How Domestic Violence Charges Are Filed

When police are called to a domestic disturbance and find probable cause to believe abuse has occurred, they can arrest the alleged abuser on the spot. In many jurisdictions, law enforcement is required to make an arrest if they suspect domestic violence, even if the victim doesn’t want them to do so. 

After an arrest, a domestic violence case is referred to the local prosecutor or district attorney’s office. If the prosecutor determines there is sufficient evidence to support a domestic violence charge beyond a reasonable doubt, they’ll formally file charges. This decision is based on factors such as:

  • The responding officers' observations and incident reports

  • Statements made by the victim, suspect, or witnesses

  • Physical evidence at the scene (e.g., injuries, broken objects)

  • Prior history of domestic violence or related calls to police

  • Recorded 911 calls or police body cam footage

At this point, the case becomes a legal matter between the state and the defendant. Even if the victim later wishes to withdraw their complaint, the prosecution can continue based on the evidence gathered. As a result, the victim’s wishes, while considered, don’t control whether or not the case proceeds.

Why Victims Sometimes Want to Drop Charges

These cases are often emotionally complicated, and the circumstances leading up to the arrest may look very different in hindsight. What once felt like a necessary call for help may later feel like an overreaction or a private matter best handled outside of court. Here are some reasons a domestic violence victim may want to drop the charges:

  • Reconciliation: The victim and accused may have reconciled, and the victim no longer wants to see their partner prosecuted.

  • Fear or intimidation: In some cases, victims may be pressured or threatened into recanting their statements or refusing to cooperate.

  • Financial dependency: The accused may be the primary breadwinner, and the victim may worry about losing their income or support.

  • Regret or misinterpretation: Sometimes, victims believe the situation was misunderstood or feel their reaction was too extreme in the heat of the moment.

Regardless of the reason, once the legal wheels are in motion, stopping the process isn’t simple. A domestic violence charge is considered a crime against the state, not just the victim. That’s why the final say typically lies with the prosecutor. The victim’s role is that of a witness; an important one, but not one with decision-making power over the prosecution.

Can the Victim Refuse to Cooperate?

Victims can refuse to cooperate with the prosecution, but doing so has its own legal and practical consequences. While some may believe that remaining silent will bring the case to a halt, prosecutors may still pursue the case even without the victim’s testimony, especially if there is other evidence such as:

  • Police body cam footage

  • 911 call recordings

  • Witness statements

  • Photographs of injuries or damaged property

  • Medical records

In some cases, prosecutors may compel the victim to testify by issuing a subpoena. Refusal to comply with a subpoena can lead to contempt of court charges, fines, or even jail time, though such extreme measures aren’t always taken. Even if enforcement is rare, the possibility of legal penalties adds another layer of pressure to an already difficult situation.

Does Victim Recantation Make a Difference?

Recantation occurs when a victim changes or withdraws their original statement. While this may affect the strength of the prosecution’s case, it doesn’t automatically lead to dismissal. Prosecutors often view recantations with skepticism, especially in domestic violence cases, due to the high likelihood of coercion or intimidation.

If the victim recants, prosecutors will assess whether other evidence can sustain the domestic violence charge. If the evidence is weak without the victim’s cooperation, the prosecution might consider dropping or reducing the charge. However, this is a strategic decision made by the state, not the victim.

Affidavit of Non-Prosecution

In some jurisdictions, a victim may submit an "Affidavit of Non-Prosecution" or a formal statement indicating they don’t wish to proceed with the case. This can be an important part of the defense strategy, particularly when the affidavit explains the victim’s reasoning and supports the idea that prosecution isn’t in the public interest.

Still, even with such an affidavit, prosecutors aren’t obligated to drop the case. They may proceed with a domestic violence charge if they believe there is sufficient independent evidence to do so. An affidavit might be one factor among many that they weigh when deciding how to move forward.

Prosecutorial Discretion and “No-Drop” Policies

Many district attorneys’ offices have adopted so-called “no-drop” policies when it comes to domestic violence cases. These policies are designed to reduce the influence of coercion and intimidation and to treat domestic violence as a serious crime regardless of whether the victim wants to continue.

Under a no-drop policy, prosecutors will pursue a domestic violence charge whenever they believe they have enough evidence, even if the victim no longer wishes to participate. These policies have been controversial; while they’re meant to protect victims, they can sometimes lead to outcomes the victims themselves strongly oppose.

Alternative Resolutions and Plea Bargains

Even if the prosecutor won’t drop the charges entirely, your attorney may be able to negotiate a favorable resolution. For instance, the prosecutor might agree to reduce the charge to a lesser offense, such as disorderly conduct or disturbing the peace. In other cases, a defendant may enter into a diversion program in exchange for eventual dismissal.

These resolutions can be especially helpful when the victim has expressed a desire not to proceed and is willing to support a less punitive outcome. Courts often consider the victim’s wishes during sentencing or plea negotiations, even if those wishes didn’t influence the initial decision to charge.

Long-Term Impact of a Domestic Violence Charge

Even if the case doesn’t result in a conviction, a domestic violence charge can have long-lasting consequences. Arrest records, protective orders, loss of firearm rights, child custody complications, and damage to professional reputations are all possible side effects for those facing a domestic violence charge.

This is why it’s so important to consult with an experienced criminal defense attorney as early in the process as possible. At The Law Offices of James Crosby, we can evaluate the strength of the evidence, assess the likelihood of prosecution without the victim’s cooperation, and develop a strategy tailored to your specific circumstances.

Speak With a Criminal Defense Lawyer Today

In short, a domestic violence victim can’t directly “drop” the charges once they’ve been filed, since the ultimate decision lies with the state. A skilled criminal defense lawyer is essential for those facing a domestic violence charge.

At The Law Offices of James Crosby, we help clients in Murrysville, Pennsylvania, as well as Harrison City, Greensburg, Latrobe, and Westmoreland County, who are facing these charges. Contact our firm today to discuss your case.